It’s me….hi….remember me?
I know it has been quite some time since I have been here. After my last post in May, it became the hustle and bustle of school ending and then BOOM, summer! Life shifted to complete summer mode and writing took a major back seat.
But I am here now - I have all of these great ideas of things to write about, but haven’t been able to get them on paper. I'm eager to rekindle my creative fire and establish a more steadfast presence. So let’s light it up and get this b*tch started.
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Today, I wanted to explore the concept of doing “hard” things. It's important to note that what we consider "hard" varies greatly from person to person. What might be a formidable challenge for one individual, such as running a 5k or caring for an ailing family member, can be a different person's everyday feat. Similarly, confronting one's deepest fears may pose a significant challenge for some, while for others, that same fear could seem trivial.
I recently have been witnessing people very close to me having to navigate through some very hard things - my closest childhood friend getting through a significant health issue, another friend dealing with out of the norm behavioral issues with her teenage daughter, tremendous harsh work conditions for a different friend, family members aging and declining - just to name a few.
I often listen to podcasts when I am in the car or am getting ready in the morning (if time allows). Podcasts about health, motivation or sometimes the ones that make ya giggle. And I recently listened to one about facing the hard things and I wanted to share what I learned since I know that we all go through hard things on the reg. If my findings can help remind 1 person of how awesome they are as they are tacking their “hard” thing, I consider this a win
So…here we go…It goes a lil something like this….
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Life is an intricate dance of experiences, a magnificent voyage filled with highs and lows. While we all savor the sweet moments, it's the challenging times that often shape us into the amazing individuals we become. So instead of focusing on the negative side of the “hard” - let's celebrate the incredible journey of handling the hard things.
Strength in Adversity: Handling the hard things showcases your inner strength. It's a testament to your resilience and your ability to face adversity head-on. Each challenge you overcome is a reminder of your incredible fortitude.
The Gift of Growth: The hard things are often the most profound teachers. They offer the gift of growth, allowing you to discover strengths, skills, and insights you never knew you possessed. Every trial is an opportunity to learn and evolve.
Gratitude for the Good Times: Handling the hard things enhances your appreciation for the good times. It's during the challenging moments that you realize the value of the simple joys, making life's successes all the more beautiful.
Empathy and Compassion: Going through tough times cultivates empathy and compassion. You gain a deeper understanding of others' struggles and, in turn, become a source of support and inspiration for those around you.
Resilience to Future Challenges: As you successfully navigate hard things, you become better equipped to handle future challenges. The experience empowers you with a sense of confidence and readiness to face whatever life throws your way.
Personal Triumphs: Every time you conquer a hardship, it's a personal triumph. These victories, no matter how small they may seem, are milestones that mark your journey, reminding you of your extraordinary capabilities.
Bonds and Connections: Hard times can bring people closer together. When you share your challenges with others, you build connections and support networks that strengthen your relationships and create lasting bonds.
Stories of Inspiration: Your journey of handling the hard things becomes a source of inspiration for others. Your story can motivate those facing similar struggles and encourage them to keep moving forward.
So, the next time you find yourself facing a challenging situation, remember that you are on an incredible journey. Embrace it with open arms, and know that handling the hard things is a remarkable testament to your strength, growth, and the amazing person you are becoming. Celebrate the journey….or at least try.
And now…I need to take what I am sharing and abide by it. I admit, I don’t handle the hard things well, in fact, I spiral down a path that is no bueno. I can go to a place that is very dark and that doesn’t exist. But what I hope for myself and all of you, is that maybe we can flip the switch to view the “hard” in a more positive light - like everything listed above.
Sooo…..when we are dealing with the hard, no matter what it is - let’s remember how awesome we are and to cut ourselves some slack.
I highly enjoyed reading this blog. Keep up the great heartfelt words.